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Wednesday 12 December 2012

, OMG! I'm Getting Married?

ASSALAMUALAKUM ^_^


Im, getting married!

Me, getting married!

Am I excited? Of course.

Am I nervous? YES YES A THOUSAND TIMES YES. 
(And I know that was an incomplete sentence and poor grammar to boot. But when we get nervous, proper writing convention gets gently nudged aside.)


Setiap orang ingin hubungan yang mereka bina bersama pasangan mereka agar melangkah ke gerbang perkahwinan. Tapi tak ramai yang dapat menggapai impian itu.And I think, many people want the most joyous wedding, the most beautiful and most memorable moment with the family, friends and loved ones.








Sebenarnya, kami baru mula merancang tentang majlis perkahwinan kami. Walaupun kami baru sahaja berkenalan  tapi kami telah membuat keputusan untuk meneruskan hubungan ini ke hubungan yang lebih serious. Dan tarraaaaaa, kami mengambil keputusan untuk berkahwin dalam jangka masa 2 atau 3 tahun. In sha allah kalau ada rezeki dan jodoh yang kuat antara kami. 










Many would be surprised by this decision because we are young to get married, but after discussing it with our family and they bless this relationship. In sha ALLAH kami akan cuba apa yang kami mampu untuk menjaga "keluarga" kami dan "masjid" yang kami bakal bina ini. 






So since we have decided, I started looking for articles about wedding planning. And here it is. To prospective husband or wife will be, you might be able to use some tips for planning your wedding as well. So, let's see what we should and should not do when planning our wedding.




Planning a wedding can be very stressful as there are tons of details to take care of. The most important thing is to stay organized.

10-12 Months Before
  Introduce both families and officially announce your engagement.

  Find out who pays for what and start a budget.

  Create a guest list


  Compare calendars and select a tentative date.

  Choose your wedding party.

  Create a 
wedding website to share your engagement.

  Consider whitening your teeth for your engagement parties and photographs.

  Conduct interviews and hire a wedding coordinator if applicable.

  Decide if you want premarital counseling.

  Start looking photos of wedding dresses for inspiration.

  Begin thinking about where you want to honeymoon.

  Visit and book your reception site, and arrange for parking.

  Visit and book your ceremony location, including rehearsal time.

  Create a save-the-date guest list.


6 - 9 Months Before
  Alert out-of-town guests of your wedding date with 
  save-the-date post cards.  (optional)
  Find a bridal salon and begin trying on wedding dresses and veils.  
 
  Get in shape for your wedding gown by starting an exercise routine.

  Get ideas for honeymoon locations and research pricing.

  Start looking at floral designs and interview florists for style and cost.

  Search for menu ideas and start meeting with caterers.

  Research wedding photography and interview wedding 
  photographers/videographers.

  Get ideas for music and interview bands/DJs.

  Finalize flower and décor ideas, and select a florist. Include 
  specifics of each floral arrangement in your contract.

  Sign a caterer.

  Order your gown and wedding veil.

  Shop for and select the perfect bridesmaid dress.

  Book your honeymoon!

  Find out if your ceremony location requires liability insurance.

  Finalize contracts with your wedding photographer and 
  videographer.

  Book your DJ/band.

  Browse and purchase wedding dress accessories, including shoes, 
  lingerie, purse, and gloves.

  Choose your officiant and discuss ceremony ideas.

  Start thinking about all of your gift registry options.

  Select a hotel in varying price ranges and reserve rooms for 
  out-of-town


4 - 5 Months Before
  Start thinking about cultural traditions for your wedding.

  View wedding invitation styles and research proper wording.

  Look at photos to get ideas for wedding cake designs, and meet 
  with bakers to taste samples.

  Discuss menu ideas with your catering manager.

  Shop for wedding rings.

  Look for the groom’s tux and decide what groomsmen will wear.

  Confirm your bridesmaids ordered their gowns and decide 
  on accessories.

  Have your mother and future mother-in-law coordinate and select 
  their dresses.

  Compare pricing, place your wedding invitation order, and book 
  your calligrapher.

  Purchase your wedding rings and send for engraving if applicable.

  Get ideas for wedding favors.

  Choose your baker and finalize wedding cake.

  Reserve rental equipment such as chairs, tables, linens, tents, etc.

  Research and book your rehearsal dinner location.

  Get ideas for wedding hair and makeup.

  Notify any family or friends whom you would like to give readings, 
  sing solos, serve as guest book attendant, etc.

  Interview and hire any additional management staff and 
  babysitters if needed.


2 - 3 Months Before
  Finalize guest list and submit invitations to calligrapher.

  Book makeup artist and hairstylist.

  Order your wedding favors.

  Candles, baskets, ring pillow… it’s time to start browsing and purchase 
  wedding accessories!

  Schedule your last tasting and finalize menu.

  Find gifts for each other, your attendants, your shower hostess, and your parents.

  Confirm tuxes have been ordered for groom/groomsmen.

  Prep for your honeymoon – do you have everything you need?

  Choose your getaway! Finalize wedding transportation.

  Take care of business: Look into joint bank accounts, insurance, and merging 
  your money.

  Select your music for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, and review 
  with musicians, singers.

  Check that there are enough options left on your registry.

  Finalize rehearsal dinner plans and order rehearsal invitations, menus, table 
  numbers, escort cards, and any other stationery accessories.

  Mail invitations eight weeks before your wedding day.


 1 - 2 Months Before
  Have your first bridal gown fitting. Remember to bring stockings, shoes, the appropriate bra, hair accessories, jewelry, a camera, and your mom or best friend.

  Finalize ceremony readings and songs, and review with performers.

  Meet with your officiant to finalize the ceremony, including attendant formations.

  Begin writing your vows if applicable.

  Begin writing thank-you notes for bridal showers and early wedding gifts, and update your registry at the same time.

  Research where to get your marriage license.

  Prepare a photo and video shot list, naming important family members and guests.

  Schedule the bridesmaids’ luncheon and buy attendant gifts if you haven’t already.

  Begin whitening your teeth for your wedding day.

  Consider liability insurance for your reception location.


 3 - 4 Weeks Before
  Finalize your jewelry, which may include something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue.

  Prepare a must-have shot list for your wedding photographer and videographer.

  Finalize your “must play” and “don’t play” music lists and review with musicians.

  Design and order your wedding program.

  Confirm honeymoon and travel arrangements, and give loved ones your itinerary in case of emergency.

  Call guests who haven’t RSVP’d.

  Pick up your wedding rings.

  Get your marriage license, typically no earlier than 30 days before the wedding.

  Research how to change your name.

  Mail your rehearsal-dinner invitations.

  Purchase small candles, candies, and mints for your guest powder room.

  Meet with your stylist to discuss and test the perfect makeup and hair for your bridal style.


 1 - 2 Weeks Before
  Have your final wedding gown fitting.

  Finalize your wedding-day schedule (including receiving-line order) and share with attendants, parents, and all vendors.

  Confirm all of your beauty appointments.

  Confirm pick-up times, schedules, and addresses with your wedding-day transportation.

  Pick up your wedding dress and make sure all of your accessories are together.

  Pick up the groom’s outfit, make sure it fits, and gather all of his accessories together.

  Finalize your vows for the ceremony.

  Confirm final headcount.

  Give final attendance numbers to vendors and confirm final date/time for deliverables and pick-ups after wedding.

  Pack for your wedding night and honeymoon.

  Create a “wedding box” to gather your ceremony accessories (marriage license, candles, ring pillow, basket, guest book) and assign someone to transport.

  Prepare a “reception box” for accessories such as guest books, cameras, toasting goblets, cake toppers, etc., and assign someone to transport.

  Prepare all of your wedding favors for transportation to reception venue and assign someone to move them.

  Finalize your seating arrangements (making sure you involve both sets of parents) and submit to caterer.

  Prepare place cards.

 Confirm dates/times/locations for all photo and video sessions the day of the wedding.

  Confirm dates/times/locations with all vendors.


The Day Before
  Prepare a list of payment envelopes – including tips – earmarking who is responsible for distributing to vendors.

  Hand out assignment lists and checklists to ensure everyone knows their tasks, including person responsible for transporting gifts.

  Hand out ceremony box to appropriate person.

  Hand out reception box to appropriate person.

  Hand out favor box to appropriate person.

  Assign someone to mail your announcement cards.

  Gather together your wedding dress, accessories, and bridal emergency kit.

  Get a manicure, pedicure, and massage.

  Rehearse ceremony with officiant and wedding party.


 The Wedding Day
  Your day has arrived! You may be nervous, but try to eat breakfast and drink plenty of fluids.

  Take a lavender bath – it’s very relaxing.

  Be sure to wear a button-down shirt for your hair and makeup appointments.


After the Wedding
  Get your wedding dress cleaned and preserved.

  Preserve your bouquet.

  Write and mail your thank-you notes.

  Meet with photographer and videographer to finalize albums/video.




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Thursday 15 November 2012

, Saya rasa rindu awak bila saya bangun dari tidur lena awak tiada di sisi saya.


Assalamualaikum pembaca setia,  sweet stalkers dan sewaktu dengannya ^__^




Saya ingin memiliki seorang ADAM yang Allah ciptakan dia mungkin untuk saya he he he.. Seorang ciptaan Allah yang sangat-sangat teragung, sempurna , baik dan segala-galanya ada pada dia. Tapi hancur gila hati saya sebab terpaksa lepaskan dia. Maybe saya tak boleh terima dia kot. Sebab dia terlampau baik, saya fikir dia boleh jumpa yang lebih baik lagi dari saya lagipun belum tentu lagi saya boleh jadi yang terbaik untuk dia dan jadikan saya seorang perempuan yang dia sanjung saya setinggi gunung. Tapi harapan saya hancur sebab saya lepaskan dia macam tu jea. 

Ye lah. Harapan saya sangat-sangat besar. Nak miliki dia bukan sekadar jadi pasangan kekasih saya malah saya ingin menjadi yang halal untuk dia. :) Ingin menjadi isteri yang solehah hanya untuk dia. Hanya diri dia yang saya ingin miliki.. Atas restu Allah saya ingin miliki dia, saya nak dia menjadi yang terakhir buat saya :( W
alaupun seketika, saya mengenali dia, dia sangat-sangat mengerti dan fahami saya.. Hurm sungguh hebat ciptaan Tuhan tu. Ya Allah, kau maha pemurah, kau berikanlah jalan dan ruang untuk ku lebih mengenali dan memiliki cahaya yang bersinar itu Ya Allah. Cahaya yang tak pernah saya lalui dan temui sepanjang hidup saya tapi saya fikir saya salah mengerti dia. Hurmm saya nak sangat-sanngat dia tahu yang saya sangat mencintai dia. Sangat-sangat sayang kan dia. Dulu dan sekarang saya hanya merindui dia. :( 



Dari 1st jumpa mengejar tapi berhenti... Bila di kejar cuba gapainye dan tangkap biar dia jadi milik saya. Namun saya akur, saya mesti akan gagal. Gagal untuk memilikinya. Ya Allah saya nak sangat-sangat habiskan masa hidup saya nie hanya bersama dia. Ya Allah, berikanlah sedikit waktu untuk saya bersamanye sebelum ajal KU tiba, berikan masa saya bersama dia, saya nak hari-hari saya hanya bersama dia meskipun seketika.. Saya dah cukup lega untuk tempuhi segala-galanya jika dia selalu disisi saya. Saya hanya mahukan dia! Hanya dirinya Ya Allah.. "aku memohon kepada-Mu
 Ya Allah berikan ku cinta untuk ku persembahkan hanyalah pada dia. Dia anugerahku kasih hanya untuk berkasih berbagi dengan mu".....  



Hurm.. saya tahu walaupun semua ni hanya ade dalam mimpi saya, angan saya tapi saya berharap dari mimpi dan angan-angan saya itu menjadi kenyataan. Kenyataan yang terindah. Peristiwa yang terlalu bernilai dan berharga yang takkan saya lupakan. Kenangan yang terhebat yang tak pernah saya rasai.... Ya Allah saya nak dia tahu yang saya sangat-sangat mencintai dia.. Saya memohon seandainye masih ada lagi ruang untuk saya bertapak..  Saya nak jadi seorang perempuan yang sangat-sangat bertuah sbb dapat memiliki dia walaupun seketika. Awak, saya nak awak tahu saya sedang merindui awak, saya rindu kenangan kite, rindu nak dgr suara awak ''walaupun baru malam nie saya tak dgr suara awak", saya nak awak tahu yang saya bertuah sbb dapat kenal awak dan saya nak awak tahu.  saya amat hargai awak dan kehadiran awak dalam hidup saya. 

Awak, saya mintak maaf sebab selalu menyusahkan awak, penatkan awak, mengatur awak, ganggu masa awak kerja dan menyibukkan diri saya dalam hal-hal harian awak. Dan saya mintak maaf sebab saya mencintai awak selama nie. Saya nak mintak maaf sbb 1st kite kenal, saya mula menyanyangi awak tapi saya dah cuba untuk berhenti. Berhenti mengharap dan berharap. Saya rindukan awak. Jujur dan ikhlas saya katakan yang saya mula rasa kehilangan awak bila awak tak pedulikan saya. Saya rasa rindu awak bila saya bangun dari tidur lena awak tiada di sisi saya. :( Saya rindukan awak. Rindukan belaian awak. Maafkan saya. :(




# Ya Allah permudahkan segalanya.. Urusan aku di atas dunia mu dan perjalanan hidup ku di atas dunia dan di akhirat nanti.. Aku memohon kepada Mu jadi kan aku seorang insan yang kuat dan teguh dalam menempuhi cabaran dan dugaan Mu Ya Allah. Aku memohon kepada Mu.. :) #















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, Awak jangan merajuk lama-lama eh nanti saya rindu.

Assalamualaikum awak yang tengah membaca ! *buat mata blingbling* Hahaha saya memang nak kena campak dalam sungai kinabatangan macam awak selalu cakap tu kan?

Awak. Saya tak tahu samada awak marah saya atau awak tengah sibuk sekarang. Tak pun mesti awak tengah tidur lena kan. Saya takut nak msg or call awak banyak-banyak kali. Saya takut kena marahAwak tahu tak? Saya tengah tunggu awak nie. Saya rindu awak. Seriously saya betul-betul mintak maaf. Saya takde niat pun just nk gurau-gurau jea mula-mula tapi jadi lain pulak hal nya.

 .....Awak..... 
..Maaflah.. 
Kan saya dah cakap saya memang tak boleh jadi yang terbaik untuk awak kan tapi awak tu lah yang degil sangat! Tengok sekarang kita gaduh tiap-tiap hari dah and it's all because of me.
Saya nie kurang dalam semua segi perkara. Saya tak pandai masak. Saya tak pandai kemas rumah. Saya bengap dalam melakukan kerja saya. Saya lembap dalam berfikir. Saya tak pernah berfikiran matang. Saya nie lurus bendul macam awak selalu cakap tu. *takpe saya tak terasa hati pun. semua yang awak cakap tu perkara yang betul. saya takkan 'dush-dush' awak kali nie* Heeeeeeeeee ^__^

 Sebab tu lah :(... Awak, saya harap awak maafkan saya. I really miss you. Saya tunggu awak sampai awak msg eh. Saya sayang nak tidur sebab saya takut masa saya tidur tiba-tiba awak ada sedikit masa untuk luangkan bersama saya. :( Sebab tu lah saya taknak tidur dan tetap tunggu awak walau ape pun terjadi kat saya sebab jelas dan  ternyata saya sayangkan awak, rindukan awak. :( Awak jangan merajuk lama-lama eh nanti saya rindu. :( Maafkan saya. Maafkan saya sebab saya nie tak sempurna untuk awak. Sangat tak sempurna untuk awak </3


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